Choices I No Longer Give Myself a Hard Time For...
because may we always choose to come home to ourselves
Anne Rohr
11/8/20242 min read


finishing sentences with prepositions
the amount I love my dog
attaching my bra around my waist and then pulling it up and on
or just going braless
letting my actions go unexplained, (usually. I mean, if no one asks for one)
how unevenly I cut cloves of garlic and other vegetables while cooking
What can you or I do? Give ourselves a hard time?
Or just give it a better go the next time..
That's up to you to choose!
See you next time 💛
Anne


taking time, and a lot of it, to learn how to do something
taking time to coordinate details, knowing that I am probably the only one who will notice it
valuing myself
the songs I bought on iTunes in the early 2000s
watching any show that I want to watch
looking up instructions on how to do things I probably should already know how to do
not laughing at jokes that I don’t find funny
bumping into people instead of moving out of the way when I’m walking on the right side of the road
no longer telling people it’s “so good to see them,” if I am in fact not happy about it
letting things play out how I see instead of forcing them
keeping my last name when I got married
sleeping as much as I need/want
glaring at smokers who let their smoke go in my or other people’s faces
glaring at anyone who could avoid negatively impacting others, but doing it anyway
being 34 and still figuring things out
knowing full and well there are things on this list that I still struggle to do and feel okay about
speaking up even when I don’t know everything about everything
telling myself, and you reader, last week that I would see you next Thursday but that didn’t happen
being sad and so disappointed this week
doubts that this attempt at a blog is worth it
posting today, on a Friday! Even though the goal is to post on Thursdays.
knowing this list could be longer or more concise, but letting it be just like it is





